{"id":55,"date":"2008-06-25T12:07:52","date_gmt":"2008-06-25T17:07:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/newlifedesign.wordpress.com\/?p=55"},"modified":"2008-06-25T12:07:52","modified_gmt":"2008-06-25T17:07:52","slug":"strivers-anonymous-a-friends-story-of-an-exchanged-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/anewlifedesign.org\/wordpress\/2008\/06\/25\/strivers-anonymous-a-friends-story-of-an-exchanged-life\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Strivers Anonymous&#8221; &#8211; A Friend&#8217;s Story of an Exchanged Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I wanted to share a wonderful testimony with you.\u00a0 This is from Myra Woods who is one of our Board Members here at NLD.\u00a0 We had asked her to write up her story of how she came to understand the exchanged life and the impact that Grace has made on her life.\u00a0 When I read this earlier today I just had to give you a sneak preview.\u00a0 This is hopefully going to be in our Summer Newsletter that is going out in a few days.<\/p>\n<p>Dana<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i1\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i0\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">Strivers Anonymous. If there were such an organization, I would be a member, for this is my confession, \u201cMy name is Myra Woods and I am a Striver.\u201d But, thank God, a recovering striver. Jesus rescued me from my pitiful self-efforts at living the Christian life and He set me free. \u201cHow?,\u201d you ask? When I came to the end of my rope and He offered to exchange His life for mine. I accepted. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i3\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i2\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i6\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i5\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i4\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">For me, to live was to try harder, to grow greater, to understand fuller, and to doubt deeper. I was forever striving to control and desperately hold on to those things that kept me safe. Combine these efforts with a concept of God who wouldn&#8217;t rescue me from my frustrations and fears when I so needed Him to. Do you see a recipe for a life full of anxiety, fear and panic attacks? Well, that&#8217;s what my life was. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i8\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i7\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i11\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i10\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i9\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">I was emotionally exhausted. I was trying to hang on by my fingernails to keep from falling into an abyss \u2013 an abyss of darkness. One of my most challenging emotional journeys was when I was on an airplane. Once, I single handedly kept a 747 in the air between Denver and Atlanta using all the emotional strength I had. I worked harder than the pilot and co-pilot combined. On arrival to Atlanta, I was exhausted! That was my life. The only way I know to describe it is: I was emotionally exhausted.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i13\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i12\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i16\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i15\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i14\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">Three times over the past two decades I sought professional help. I credit two Christian counselors who saw me through some tough times and helped me survive not only my own clinical depression but my husband\u2019s as well. I left their care better able to cope and thankful for their guidance. It was not until I attended a Grace Life Conference, however, that lasting change happened. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i18\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i17\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i21\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i20\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i19\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">After listening for two days about how the flesh exhibits itself I began to see clearly just how I had been striving so hard to keep it together, to make my faith stronger, to not doubt, to grasp truth, to always do the right thing. Whatever my hand found to do I was going to strive to do it\u2026.myself. But all it got me was a life full of anxiety, fear and depression. Surely there was an easier way to live the Christian life. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i23\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i22\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i26\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i25\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i24\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">Fear had driven my life for so long, and I was desperate to know what else God had to offer. I was afraid to surrender it all for fear of what God might do. I had been unable to let go while my fingernails were becoming weaker and weaker. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i28\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i27\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i31\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i30\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i29\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">The instructor at the Grace Life Conference quoted scripture after scripture about who we were in Christ and what Jesus had done for us and in us. I realized I was not living out of that identity but out of my own strength. That night God offered to exchange His strength for mine. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i33\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i32\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i36\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i35\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i34\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">Isaiah 40:31 says, \u201cThose who wait on the Lord will gain (exchange) new strength; They will mount up with wings (literally, sprout wings) like eagles, They will run and not get tired, They will walk and not become weary.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i38\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i37\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i41\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i40\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i39\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">The instructor guided us to a page in our workbook entitled \u201cThe Selfer\u2019s Prayer\u201d and began to read. He encouraged us to go home and get before the Lord with this prayer. I couldn\u2019t wait. Tears began to flow and the Holy Spirit flooded my heart with the knowledge that I needed to repent of trying to live the Christian life in my own strength, to quit striving and start trusting. I literally lost it. It was very loud in my head and in my heart as I said the words of that prayer through my tears. If my life had depended on it I could not have waited to get home to do business with the Lord. What happened that night is a significant benchmark in my spiritual journey. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i43\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i42\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i46\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i45\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i44\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">2 Corinthians 5:17 says, \u201cTherefore if any man be in Christ he is a new creature. Behold old things have passed away and all things have become new.\u201d Something new happened in me that night.\u00a0There was a release &#8211; a realization that God was truly good and I could trust Him no matter what. I could let go and know He would catch me. Were these new truths for me? No. I knew Jesus lived in my heart through the Holy Spirit, but somewhere I had missed the part where He was actually going to live the Christian life as me. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i53\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i52\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i56\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i55\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i54\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">One of my favorite verses is, <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i58\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i57\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i59\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u201c<a name=\"zk.i61\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i60\"><\/a>I am crucified with Christ, nevertheless, I live, <a name=\"zk.i62\"><\/a><strong>yet not I but Christ lives in me<\/strong>. And the life I live in the flesh, I live by faith of the Son of God who loves me and gave Himself for me.\u201d Galatians 2:20 <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i64\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i63\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i67\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i66\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i65\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">Since that weekend five years ago the grace message \u201cChrist in YOU\u201d has flowed like a river through me. I have the promise that He will make all things new in every area I learn to trust Him with and that He loves and accepts me just as I am &#8211; all because of who He has made me to be &#8211; His holy, pure and righteous child. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i69\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i68\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i72\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i71\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i70\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">Not only do I experience a security I had never known, but I am learning to enjoy an intimacy with Him that I never dreamed possible. I have the hope that where ever I am, what ever I experience, whomever I need to deal with, Jesus is there with me to live His life through me. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i74\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i73\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i77\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i76\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i75\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">There are days I feel like something new is happening, that there is something new to share with a friend about the Lord, but I can\u2019t really point to any one thing. Everyday is just new because He\u2019s in it. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i79\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i78\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i82\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i81\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i80\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">The message of grace continues to change my life. Knowing I am completely accepted, loved beyond my comprehension, and will never be abandoned strengthens my faith to rest in the power of the very life of Jesus living in me. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i84\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i83\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i87\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i86\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i85\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">This is the grace message. This is the grace message that New Life Design teaches. It can change your life. It did mine. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i89\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i88\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i92\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i91\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i90\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">I serve on the Board of Directors of New Life Design because I believe in the transforming power of the Word of God in a person\u2019s life. I believe in the emphasis on God\u2019s grace in the counseling ministry. I believe in the ministry of the Holy Spirit to guide, to heal and restore a person\u2019s faith. This is what the ministry of New Life Design is all about. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoBodyText\" style=\"margin:0;\"><a name=\"zk.i94\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i93\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i97\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i96\"><\/a><a name=\"zk.i95\"><\/a><span style=\"font-size:10pt;\">Jesus invites us &#8211; no, He pleads with us, \u201cCome to Me those who are weary (who work to exhaustion) and heavy laden and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your soul (mind, will and emotions).\u201d Matthew 11:28-29 <\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I wanted to share a wonderful testimony with you.\u00a0 This is from Myra Woods who is one of our Board Members here at NLD.\u00a0 We had asked her to write up her story of how she came to understand the exchanged life and the impact that Grace has made on her life.\u00a0 When I read this earlier today I just had to give you a sneak preview.\u00a0 This is hopefully going to be in our Summer Newsletter that is going out in a few days. Dana Strivers Anonymous. If there were such an organization, I would be a member, for this is my confession, \u201cMy name is Myra Woods and I am a Striver.\u201d But, thank God, a recovering striver. Jesus rescued me from my pitiful self-efforts at living the Christian life and He set me free. \u201cHow?,\u201d you ask? 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